[The First Aria]

I agree, since I do have a wife and children, these decisions do not come lightly.

But I still follow my policy of not worrying about an issue until I am faced with it directly.


Does this make me selfish and callous?

Not really GG.  Cause in my opinion, sometimes, some problems will untangle themselves.  Like my dad and many others have said, " Don't sweat the small stuff! ".  BUT, by the same token, it's also easier to deal with the small stuff before it becomes a monstrous problem.

I never have liked to waffle on anything.  But with this situation??????