[Jessica4581000]

I get told during our discusions that she wants sex with a man, the way a man does it with a women. So basicly, if I ever get prostate cancer and I have it removed, I am fucked.

One of the older ladies in our group had her prostate removed several years ago. As soon as she got her top and bottom surgery dates, the wife decided it was time to end the marrage. Even though there had been no normal male/female relationship for some time.  They are still friends, but now live separate lives.

I too am a prostate cancer survivor,  almost 5 years since diagnosed. I had the radical prostatectomy,  which included the seminal vesicles and some of the lymph nodes. Sex has certainly been difficult, a challenge, a source of frustration, and of course a pleasure with my beloved wife. Sometimes I need a little blue pill, sometimes not. Your Sex life is not over unless you give up on it, which it is easy to get frustrated and give up.
As I am going deeper into the rabbit hole with NBE, life is what I consider to be normal, so far- no changes down there, only upstairs so far.......certainly something I need to keep under control as I don't want to lose what I have fought and struggled to maintain for the past 5 yesrs.