Oh my gosh, that does seem like quite a bit going on.  Well I do hope you have some lovely nice things go your way and help balance things out.  Try not to stress out too much about your family, maybe they'll notice, maybe they won't, the important thing is that YOU like you and you are happier with yourself.     Hmm, yeah I know, I should take my own advice, always easier said than done.      

HUGS  Have a lovely wonderful afternoon!!