24-10-2016, 09:33 PM
Oh Jannet,
I so sorry for you, I was hoping that things were all going swimmingly with you and the wife.
All I can tell you is that you have to make yourself HAPPY. You cannot force anyone to be happy except yourself.
Focus on your happiness and what ever that gives you.
Focus on you being happy and someone that loves you will be happy too. Leave out the details of who that might be, and just know that if you really want to be happy, you will, and who will show up, or she might just see the real and complex you as the person she married.
People have a bad habit of trying to blame others for their problems, so dont take her rants as the end all. She is probably frustrated with her weight, and your a convenient punching bag.
Maybe tell her how it hurts when she attacks you.
Huggs
Bobbi
I so sorry for you, I was hoping that things were all going swimmingly with you and the wife.
All I can tell you is that you have to make yourself HAPPY. You cannot force anyone to be happy except yourself.
Focus on your happiness and what ever that gives you.
Focus on you being happy and someone that loves you will be happy too. Leave out the details of who that might be, and just know that if you really want to be happy, you will, and who will show up, or she might just see the real and complex you as the person she married.
People have a bad habit of trying to blame others for their problems, so dont take her rants as the end all. She is probably frustrated with her weight, and your a convenient punching bag.
Maybe tell her how it hurts when she attacks you.
Huggs
Bobbi