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Brutal honesty forthcoming...

I do not know a single relationship that has survived the same after a gastric bypass except one. My experiences are that the bypass changes how one feels about themselves and those changes are forced upon the other party which never works well. This could be related to sex, health, loss of attractiveness, health issues after the bypass or financial. It has run the whole gamut.

The relationship that is still together is an open relationship. They are both comfortable with each other but both free to do as they please, and they both exercise their pleasures.

I hope this doesn't go this way for you. Good luck.

My 1st wife got a gastric sleeve then a bypass.  Yes we got divorced.  She left me.  But I am so much happier with my brand new wifey Sexy Amy.

I wish we had a like or a thumbs up option for some posts ..

The gastric bypass may or may not even work for my wife. I am sure it will help her loose an easy 50 / 60 lb in the begining. However, her problem has never really been the diet, it's the cheating on that diet.

Her nemesis on any diet has always been chocolate. 

Unfortunatly, I have heard of some women on gastric bypass actually going as far as blending mars bars, so they can drink them.

My guess is once she looses 50+lb .. The cheating will start.

She already knows of somebody who has had it done, lost over 100lb, now the weight is up and over what they started at.

Everything I know about gastric bypass, from acquaintances who have undergone it and what I have read, is that it is at best a temporary fix, and most people regain the weight over a period of a few years.