28-10-2016, 01:44 AM
I just wanted to throw my 2-cents in here. - i was in a VERY similiar place to where you are right now. NBE wasnt something that was talked about (And the internet was still infinitile at that stage). So i didnt have the options or support you can get today. People were not as accepting or forgiving to anyone with a form of Gender Disphoria, or Gender Identity Phenomena as it was known then.
While Medically and Physically you may not be able to transition to where you are comfortable. Do not let that sense of partial relief ease your self into denial. Life may take you different paths and HighSchool is never a easy place. We were all 16 once. Some of us(maybe most) in similiar paths to you, but the one thing we all share is reaching who we are on the inside.
There is alot of risk in anything we do, in all walks of life. So sit with your support, talk to them. Tell them your Research and remember. This is about you, and they are there for you. The older you get, the more difficult it becomes. the less security and support you have. Worse is the more people you feel responsible to, to hold that persona that is not you.
Dont become something we all hate now, but, dont rush anything. | My best advice is, be you, even if its only one step at a time. But lay a plan, stick to it, and remember, people who cant accept you now, Never will.
While Medically and Physically you may not be able to transition to where you are comfortable. Do not let that sense of partial relief ease your self into denial. Life may take you different paths and HighSchool is never a easy place. We were all 16 once. Some of us(maybe most) in similiar paths to you, but the one thing we all share is reaching who we are on the inside.
There is alot of risk in anything we do, in all walks of life. So sit with your support, talk to them. Tell them your Research and remember. This is about you, and they are there for you. The older you get, the more difficult it becomes. the less security and support you have. Worse is the more people you feel responsible to, to hold that persona that is not you.
Dont become something we all hate now, but, dont rush anything. | My best advice is, be you, even if its only one step at a time. But lay a plan, stick to it, and remember, people who cant accept you now, Never will.