31-10-2016, 06:47 PM
Phew Iaboy!
You gotta stop thinking so hard!
So just think how safe and BORING life would be without our femme side.
How many guys do you know that can really love getting dressed up in their 'manly clothes'
We have it made! Personally I never gave much of rats patuutie about my everyday appearance, shave, no shave, dirty shirt, dirtier shirt.
pants too tight, pants too loose. does my shirt match my pants, tie, socks, belt. The only time it mattered was when I was in pursuit of a lass.
NOW however I spend a tonne of time between shower and the last bit of lipstick and I can look in the mirror and thank the gods above that at 67 I look pretty damn good and would be really interested in someone that looked like me. But then I am biased.
As for clothes, I never shopped more than 5 minutes in a clothes store. Now its an hour+ to check out the clearance racks and what new stuff has come in. AND I LOVE IT. I do find a lot of very affordable nice clothes at Walmart, and the thrift stores. I'm basically frugal by nature and rarely pay more than $20 for one piece of clothing. And my closet has so many dresses, skirts and tops I dont have room for any more. Since I am retires now I'm looking to start Ebay-ing my brook brothers stuff since I dont see me wearing many of them in my future.
But I LOVE IT, I think I mentioned that but I love the big deep smile I get when I get out of the shower, and my much different breasts are there, WOW.
And when I'm done dressing and walk by the full length mirror There is that deep wonderful smile again.
It doesnt matter that I am normally in girl shorts panties and a well worked guy tee shirt. Life goes on and I like to work the garden, cars, boats and generally dirty stuff. That's part of me too. Dont want to mess up any of my girl treasures.
But as the LOreal girl says "BUT I AM WORTH IT"
My advice is not to look at the time you in boy mode and grumble, but look at the amazing time that the girl is loose and savor it!
As for the wife, try to engage her. Point out some pretty outfit and ask her opinion. If a conversation is not forthcoming, dont push it, but dont give up either. You need to show her and everyone (especially yourself) how happy you are when the femme side of you is shining.
Believe in your self!
Hugs
Bobbi
You gotta stop thinking so hard!
So just think how safe and BORING life would be without our femme side.
How many guys do you know that can really love getting dressed up in their 'manly clothes'
We have it made! Personally I never gave much of rats patuutie about my everyday appearance, shave, no shave, dirty shirt, dirtier shirt.
pants too tight, pants too loose. does my shirt match my pants, tie, socks, belt. The only time it mattered was when I was in pursuit of a lass.
NOW however I spend a tonne of time between shower and the last bit of lipstick and I can look in the mirror and thank the gods above that at 67 I look pretty damn good and would be really interested in someone that looked like me. But then I am biased.
As for clothes, I never shopped more than 5 minutes in a clothes store. Now its an hour+ to check out the clearance racks and what new stuff has come in. AND I LOVE IT. I do find a lot of very affordable nice clothes at Walmart, and the thrift stores. I'm basically frugal by nature and rarely pay more than $20 for one piece of clothing. And my closet has so many dresses, skirts and tops I dont have room for any more. Since I am retires now I'm looking to start Ebay-ing my brook brothers stuff since I dont see me wearing many of them in my future.
But I LOVE IT, I think I mentioned that but I love the big deep smile I get when I get out of the shower, and my much different breasts are there, WOW.
And when I'm done dressing and walk by the full length mirror There is that deep wonderful smile again.
It doesnt matter that I am normally in girl shorts panties and a well worked guy tee shirt. Life goes on and I like to work the garden, cars, boats and generally dirty stuff. That's part of me too. Dont want to mess up any of my girl treasures.
But as the LOreal girl says "BUT I AM WORTH IT"
My advice is not to look at the time you in boy mode and grumble, but look at the amazing time that the girl is loose and savor it!
As for the wife, try to engage her. Point out some pretty outfit and ask her opinion. If a conversation is not forthcoming, dont push it, but dont give up either. You need to show her and everyone (especially yourself) how happy you are when the femme side of you is shining.
Believe in your self!
Hugs
Bobbi