[tanysquirrel]

It take great courage, to "come out" to your spouse. The truth has been laid bare, and only time can tell, where it will go. When all is said and done, my dear bun bun, its you , who has to live in your skin. Your love for your spouse, and your children will never fade, if nothing else, it will be enhanced as your hormones settle to where they need to be.

Being in this life, is no easy task, and in our cases, its a hard fought road to walk, full of pitfalls, and stumbles. If we stay true to who we are, and do not live for others, we will be happy, and in turn, happy with others. If we decide to live for others the way they want us to live, I can lead to a very dark place indeed. Stay true to who you are, who you want to be. Those who love you for who you are, will stay by your side, those who don't, may not have meant to be the ones to be with you.

I wish you the very best in your endeavors, my dear friend. Know that at the very least, you have friends here and abroad that will be there to lend advice or an listening ear.

For any of us, this is the hardest and most crucial step to take. knowing those around us, we can understand the reactions that may come forth, sometimes, to our delight, it goes better as planned. For some, it may not go as desired. You cannot change the past, but you can always try to plan for the future. 

Do not regret, every thing happens for a reason, all in its own time, whether its "ordained" , happenstance or coincidence, whichever you believe in.


Stay positive. be happy with you. Be happy with whom you are becoming.

Your squirrely friend,

Tanya Marie Squirrel.