[jannet.duff]

Don't take things too seriously some times, its a message board, you can't read things like sarcasm or tone of a post. No need to go into deep thought over a fictitious reference to a "fence" in terms of gender.

There are no fences or closets in my mind just inhibitions, fear, anger, and hope.

Yeah, I kinda agree with that thought. 
Trying to transition, whilst presenting as male, holding onto family, friends and a job.