[aroundthebend]

I took the meaning of the OP to be that there are so many labels describing every niche that in the end it's meaningless. Sexuality covers a full spectrum and is as individual as each person. 

I'm a hetero male but I've always had a strong fem side. Reconciling these 2 sides has been a long hard struggle in the binary world I grew up in but now that I have I feel like I've become a better person, more open, centered. So yes, life is more interesting.

Here's a thought I had recently to go along with this...When buying clothes why are we still being presented with rigid gender choices? Women's shirts, men's shirts? Hey they're shirts fer cryin' out loud, we all have two arms and a neck, why can't I just choose whatever shirt makes me feel comfortable? Granted there are some slightly different anatomies involved but 90+% of shirts would fit either gender. Wouldn't it be cool to walk into the local Target and see a sign that just said 'Shirts' or 'Shoes' separated by sizes only with no gender references.

And how did skirts get designated 'women only', what a rip!  I think I look damn good in a skirt but I'm not ready to do battle with all judgement that would come from me wearing one to work. Maybe someday...

-Ig