07-06-2017, 11:35 PM
Bobbi, you have always tried to be a friend, supported my dumb ass and hopefully always were honest in your assessments. You and Lotus have become very great comrades and friends. I thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Here is where I am at. My therapist thinks I need to spend more time in female garb, but not to the exclusion of my male personna. At this point in time I can't. I have my 4 Grandsons and divorced Daughter living with us. ( Thank God for a relatively good size home.)
I do not want to scare my G Kids away from me, nor alienate my Daughter or my Wife. But, at the same time, maybe living on the other side of the fence, as it were, might be cathartic and relaxing time in that I will become better acquainted with "her". Maybe in this way, since I don't want to go SRS or anything of that nature, I can look forward to being "Aria" even for a week.
My Therapist has suggested that I plan a Weekend as Aria. Go out of town, w/out wife or anyone that may know me and be apprehensive of Aria. That seems to make a lot of sense. It would show me rather or not just to be a "closet woman" or at least give me something to look forward to.
I know a couple of Gurls from here have done so and was wondering what they and everyone else thinks. My only caveat to doing so, is I want to train my voice as a couple have here before I go out on my own. I would LOVE to have a Wing Gurl, or at least someone who would understand to come along. But, everyone I have come into contact seems very stand offish, or a "Trans Nazi" in a way.
What say you??? All replies and or thoughts would be great to see.
Here is where I am at. My therapist thinks I need to spend more time in female garb, but not to the exclusion of my male personna. At this point in time I can't. I have my 4 Grandsons and divorced Daughter living with us. ( Thank God for a relatively good size home.)
I do not want to scare my G Kids away from me, nor alienate my Daughter or my Wife. But, at the same time, maybe living on the other side of the fence, as it were, might be cathartic and relaxing time in that I will become better acquainted with "her". Maybe in this way, since I don't want to go SRS or anything of that nature, I can look forward to being "Aria" even for a week.
My Therapist has suggested that I plan a Weekend as Aria. Go out of town, w/out wife or anyone that may know me and be apprehensive of Aria. That seems to make a lot of sense. It would show me rather or not just to be a "closet woman" or at least give me something to look forward to.
I know a couple of Gurls from here have done so and was wondering what they and everyone else thinks. My only caveat to doing so, is I want to train my voice as a couple have here before I go out on my own. I would LOVE to have a Wing Gurl, or at least someone who would understand to come along. But, everyone I have come into contact seems very stand offish, or a "Trans Nazi" in a way.
What say you??? All replies and or thoughts would be great to see.