25-06-2017, 10:03 PM
So, If I havent said it before, I'll say it again...?
Anyway. Get thee to gender therapist.
If your truly ready to jump the fence, and all the indicators point that way, then your not about to give up transition, even a little transition.
You can promise all you want but SHE is not going to let you go and SHE will follow you all the days of your life.
Your girlfriend will not be happy with you springing the news after your married and have a few kids.
I hate to use the term 'Plan'. But you need to confront this with you, your gf and a good gender therapist.
You need to have a long chat with you and come up with a plan before a lot of people get hurt.
If your not headed towards transition, and just like the femme side of life, well the GF needs to know this too and she needs to understand the feelings you have WILL NOT GO AWAY... EVER!.
You can still grow your titties, and wear pretty clothes, but those close to you need to know what your up too. This little secret we all share is a tough nut to crack by those we hold dear.
Bobbi
PS you could always imagine what you would do if the GF said she wanted to grow a willie!
Anyway. Get thee to gender therapist.
If your truly ready to jump the fence, and all the indicators point that way, then your not about to give up transition, even a little transition.
You can promise all you want but SHE is not going to let you go and SHE will follow you all the days of your life.
Your girlfriend will not be happy with you springing the news after your married and have a few kids.
I hate to use the term 'Plan'. But you need to confront this with you, your gf and a good gender therapist.
You need to have a long chat with you and come up with a plan before a lot of people get hurt.
If your not headed towards transition, and just like the femme side of life, well the GF needs to know this too and she needs to understand the feelings you have WILL NOT GO AWAY... EVER!.
You can still grow your titties, and wear pretty clothes, but those close to you need to know what your up too. This little secret we all share is a tough nut to crack by those we hold dear.
Bobbi
PS you could always imagine what you would do if the GF said she wanted to grow a willie!

