[Jamie Lee]

So, If I havent said it before, I'll say it again...?
Anyway. Get thee to gender therapist.
If your truly ready to jump the fence, and all the indicators point that way, then your not about to give up transition, even a little transition.
You can promise all you want but SHE is not going to let you go and SHE will follow you all the days of your life.
Your girlfriend will not be happy with you springing the news after your married and have a few kids.
I hate to use the term 'Plan'. But you need to confront this with you, your gf and a good gender therapist.
You need to have a long chat with you and come up with a plan before a lot of people get hurt.

If your not headed towards transition, and just like the femme side of life, well the GF needs to know this too and she needs to understand the feelings you have WILL NOT GO AWAY... EVER!.


You can still grow your titties, and wear pretty clothes, but those close to you need to know what your up too. This little secret we all share is a tough nut to crack by those we hold dear.

Bobbi

PS you could always imagine what you would do if the GF said she wanted to grow a willie!

Right.. i really hope she stays with me . Im a bit sceptical about a gender therapist but maybe ill give it a try when i told her she said she doesnt understand why i would only want boobs and that she thinks that deep down im transgender cause there isnt any reason for me to just want boobs basically..I thank you for giving advice that doesnt just say oh you should do it anyways or shes probably going to just break up with you in the end really appreciate that im open to more advice..cause i can tell that they are goingto get pretty big in the long run i think especially since she could tell beforei mentioned it she said i have boobs.. but im gonna think on it and yea try and think about other perspectives i hope i can convince her or something its pretty tough im only 18 so i guess im not that experienced to know what to do especially in a situation like this this girl just popped into my life i didnt expect to be in a relationship any time soon but she means a lot to me honestly