31-08-2017, 02:14 PM
I've been called out multiple times by a LTP teasingly saying: "that is very girly of you" (for various actions, ideas, etc., even prior to NBE).
My somewhat joking response has been that I want to come back as a woman in the next life.
Mostly just friends at this point, I think we'd both burst out laughing if she blurted out: "Looks like you're getting a head start!"
Honesty can be a challenge, but sometimes it is actually the easier path.
If asked the question point blank - do I want to become a woman right now, the answer would be no. Perhaps more open to that than prior, but not certain that is something I'd want to fully embrace.
What might come across to others as equivocating is often simply our own quest for certainty on what we think/know/want. The latter has to come first before we ever express a true certainty to others.
My somewhat joking response has been that I want to come back as a woman in the next life.
Mostly just friends at this point, I think we'd both burst out laughing if she blurted out: "Looks like you're getting a head start!"
Honesty can be a challenge, but sometimes it is actually the easier path.
If asked the question point blank - do I want to become a woman right now, the answer would be no. Perhaps more open to that than prior, but not certain that is something I'd want to fully embrace.
What might come across to others as equivocating is often simply our own quest for certainty on what we think/know/want. The latter has to come first before we ever express a true certainty to others.