[AliP]

Ali, first off, give her some credit.  I felt the same about my wife...  She's NOT jumping up and down with joy, but trying to cope with it.  She is probably having more trouble doing so than I do..

Aria, as always thank you for your input and wisdom. I do give her a lot of credit, the last thing I want to do is cause discredit to the woman who's put up with me all these years whom I do love. When she said she wanted her big burly man back I asked her, what if he never comes back? Her response was, well I didn't sign up to be your lesbian partner so I would have to seriously rethink our marriage situation. I think that was her way of saying its not something she's going to take in to consideration. However, on the positive side, that could be her just lashing out from the situation.

Ali