[AliP]

  so i am still struggling with coming out to my wife. Fear, afraid of being alone all those feelings you ready about. I have finally agreed with myself it will be tomorrow night after we both have chilled out from work. I also use it as an excuse but when i ask her how her day was and she says a day from hell which is most days (she works in a high school) so i just power it down and i dont say anything. Its been 5 days since I started HRT. I need to tell her something.. i dont want dishonesty in our relationship. I am truly at a loss for words. I was going to use an article i read about coming out and the transition video that ultimately changed me forever. But i didnt know if that was overkill or seemed like it was rehersed. 
Any ideas or advise girls? 

Hugs,
Ali