[jannet.duff]

If it helps, here is what i did.

I sat down and wrote a letter, i started with saying how much i loved her, and how much i wanted to spend the rest of my life with her, but i have been holding a secret ever since before i even started school. The letter out lined how long i had been feeling like this, how I had used work and excessive overtime to try and keep this under control. The letter was only really 1/2 a sheet. But it let me put my thoughts down in a way that made sence.
Although i had already started NBE, i had decided ot was wiser not to come clean on that fact. I waited a few months untill after we had seen a few different therapists, ( all agreed this was not something that was not likely to go away ). Of course later on it was my Dr who suggested i go on HRT, beceause he thought herbs were dangerous. 
I can see that your in a different position, i could never start HRT unless my wife knew something before hand. Now, i am not suggesting you lie to your wife, but I suspect that admitting your on HRT is not going to help.
(How on earth to you hide that patch ?? It sticks out like a sore thumb.)

My patch is clear and only an inch by an inch and a half. I cant remember the last time we saw each other without clothes. Good points! First stop new therapist! Thanks Jannett!!

Hugs
Ali

Oh wow ... We might not "do it" as offten as we used too, ( my lack of ability, not hers ) but we still cuddle and make out. She always finds my patchs, and voices her displeasure.