[melissa]

Been with my wife 20+ years and she is much older than me. Women want to feel safe, secure, and cared for. I let her know that I will always take care of her, the house, animals, and the family. I also show her. I just upgraded her car lat year. She is retired, but I always make sure that she has money when going out during the day.

Sha also dreads anyone finding out about me, especially the kids and grandkids (from her previous marriage). I can't help you with this one only because I have not figured it out yet either...