[jannet.duff]

Jannet,
I won't presume to advse you, unfortunately you have to walk this minefield alone. I can and do sympathise and undestand some of your dilemma though. My wife has gone from being 100% in favour to about 90% against, and unpredictably , so I never know from one day to the  next what she will or won't accept. It is tough, and I feel for you.

This is I feel exactly it.

I do realize she feels she has lost the person she married. No amount of trying to explain that person is still here, this body is just a shell is going through changes that thought process.