from My perspective as a Woman, it was never a fetish thing and growing boobs was very low down on my list of priorities, for me it was all about stopping the "Noise" achieving a state of Calm and Balance mentally, emotionaly and spiritually, Nothing sexual about it.
I spent 50 years crossdressing everyday and there was nothing sexual about that either, it was a living nightmare.
needless to say that as soon as my T was gone and my E was up, in a very short space of time I Knew who I was, almost like recovering from amnesia, and as someone once put it" You jumped the fence and were off like a race horse", Yes that Can happen and does, and it happens to people on here (I know of 2 others that have also jumped the fence and plan on staying there, and there will be more!).
I do think it`s fair to give a gentle heads-up to new comers here to that effect, the possibility IS very real, and it`s a bit of a lottery really if you`ll be one of us or not (by "Us" I mean Women).
I understand your use of "just" I use it myself when I say I`m just a girl, because at the end of the day that`s what we are, and no matter how successful your transition, the Very best you`ll ever acheive is a level playing feild with other women, you`ll be one of the other 3.5 Billion women on the planet. "just" isn`t a demeaning term in this or your instance, it`s rather a statement of fact.
That`s not to say I Don`t have a fetish of some sort, I probably do and just don`t know it? it`s possible I guess, but it`s ceratinly not gender or clothes related
I spent 50 years crossdressing everyday and there was nothing sexual about that either, it was a living nightmare.
needless to say that as soon as my T was gone and my E was up, in a very short space of time I Knew who I was, almost like recovering from amnesia, and as someone once put it" You jumped the fence and were off like a race horse", Yes that Can happen and does, and it happens to people on here (I know of 2 others that have also jumped the fence and plan on staying there, and there will be more!).
I do think it`s fair to give a gentle heads-up to new comers here to that effect, the possibility IS very real, and it`s a bit of a lottery really if you`ll be one of us or not (by "Us" I mean Women).
I understand your use of "just" I use it myself when I say I`m just a girl, because at the end of the day that`s what we are, and no matter how successful your transition, the Very best you`ll ever acheive is a level playing feild with other women, you`ll be one of the other 3.5 Billion women on the planet. "just" isn`t a demeaning term in this or your instance, it`s rather a statement of fact.
That`s not to say I Don`t have a fetish of some sort, I probably do and just don`t know it? it`s possible I guess, but it`s ceratinly not gender or clothes related