12-10-2017, 07:39 PM
Awww, Thanks! xx
the fact is, I Needed to leave, and make my own way in the world as a woman, without the back-up or "crutch" of anything Trans-support related. and I must admit I was quite sad at first, but Life soon stepped in and in short time I found I was loving every minute it! and have done and experienced so many new things in my 11 months away that I never in my wildest dreams could have even imagined myself doing. it`s done me good! and no, at the time I had no intention of comming back, Had I have done, that would have still given me a mental back up plan / safety net.
Of course Now, I know I don`t NEED any backup and have gathered a little bit of experience, it`s only fair to use this where I can to help other girls that may be on here in much the same way I found this place.
My hope is that my post doesn`t drive anyone further into hiding, but rather the opposite, and provide tools or ways of thinking that will lead to greater openess ond better communications with their wives, with the hope that situations where one is on HRT and the other doesn`t know Yet! doesn`t happen anymore. and to be completely honest I have no idea what to do if anyone Was in that postion, i`v known a few and it`s never ever ended well :
I think i would still have to go with being Honest about it, purely out of respect if nothing else, and explain that I Need them, that they`re keeping me Alive (literally).
if I ever Do hear of couple that have recoved from this, you`ll be the Second to know!
the fact is, I Needed to leave, and make my own way in the world as a woman, without the back-up or "crutch" of anything Trans-support related. and I must admit I was quite sad at first, but Life soon stepped in and in short time I found I was loving every minute it! and have done and experienced so many new things in my 11 months away that I never in my wildest dreams could have even imagined myself doing. it`s done me good! and no, at the time I had no intention of comming back, Had I have done, that would have still given me a mental back up plan / safety net.
Of course Now, I know I don`t NEED any backup and have gathered a little bit of experience, it`s only fair to use this where I can to help other girls that may be on here in much the same way I found this place.
My hope is that my post doesn`t drive anyone further into hiding, but rather the opposite, and provide tools or ways of thinking that will lead to greater openess ond better communications with their wives, with the hope that situations where one is on HRT and the other doesn`t know Yet! doesn`t happen anymore. and to be completely honest I have no idea what to do if anyone Was in that postion, i`v known a few and it`s never ever ended well :
I think i would still have to go with being Honest about it, purely out of respect if nothing else, and explain that I Need them, that they`re keeping me Alive (literally).
if I ever Do hear of couple that have recoved from this, you`ll be the Second to know!