24-10-2017, 05:02 AM
Jannet,
I'm with you and Aria on this. Our wives DIDN'T sign up for this and some are better able to cope than others. For anyone to say she couldn't have really loved you to begin with is appalling IMO.
Just a hopeful thought though, although we can probably all sympathise with her "all the way and its over" attitude, it may be that in the same way that she changed her mind about your ears, it may be that that she will be able to come to terms with it in due course.
I'm with you and Aria on this. Our wives DIDN'T sign up for this and some are better able to cope than others. For anyone to say she couldn't have really loved you to begin with is appalling IMO.
Just a hopeful thought though, although we can probably all sympathise with her "all the way and its over" attitude, it may be that in the same way that she changed her mind about your ears, it may be that that she will be able to come to terms with it in due course.