07-11-2017, 05:18 PM
You seem to desire to understand a set of rules or normal procedures for dating transgender/crossdresser people. While I'm not really speaking from direct experience, I can safely say there are no such rules or norms. This is a very esoteric area. The closest you'll likely find to a normal way such things happen might be through prostitutes, who often specialize in certain areas of interest.
The whole "trans porn" or "shemale" thing is essentially a fantasy. Most of those models and performers are transitioning in their first months or year or so on hormones. After that relatively brief period they loose the ability to become erect and gradually loose interest in sexual performing. While some remain at sex work for awhile longer for financial reasons, most wish only to meld into society more fully as women.
I'd say the best thing for you to do is to examine your own desires in detail and seek others who share your interests through online contact mediums. I'm sure there are compatible folks in your area. The toughest part of this effort will probably be understanding yourself, which might even take a bit of experimentation. Good luck with it and get well.
The whole "trans porn" or "shemale" thing is essentially a fantasy. Most of those models and performers are transitioning in their first months or year or so on hormones. After that relatively brief period they loose the ability to become erect and gradually loose interest in sexual performing. While some remain at sex work for awhile longer for financial reasons, most wish only to meld into society more fully as women.
I'd say the best thing for you to do is to examine your own desires in detail and seek others who share your interests through online contact mediums. I'm sure there are compatible folks in your area. The toughest part of this effort will probably be understanding yourself, which might even take a bit of experimentation. Good luck with it and get well.