17-11-2017, 04:14 AM
(07-11-2017, 05:18 PM)Wannabe Wrote: The whole "trans porn" or "shemale" thing is essentially a fantasy. Most of those models and performers are transitioning in their first months or year or so on hormones. After that relatively brief period they loose the ability to become erect and gradually loose interest in sexual performing. While some remain at sex work for awhile longer for financial reasons, most wish only to meld into society more fully as women.
Yeah. It's kind of disappointing to know the reality is much different. I know porn in general is unrealistic, but this even more. Once I found out about the hormones (and genital dysphoria) that shifted my perspective. I'm not even sure how interested I'll be in hooking up after going on HRT myself.
That's why it seems like dating crossdressers would be the way to go. I have no desire to be a "chaser". I know that many crossdressers aren't interested in hooking up either (I guess they have a chaser/"admirer" problem too), but there are some dating sites specifically for crossdressers.