27-11-2017, 11:19 PM
(27-11-2017, 05:16 PM)Shirazmn Wrote: A short disclaimers here: I don't want to offend anyone with this post, and I am aware that it may be controversial and/or simply prove that I am a dick.
I raised the same question indirectly in other posts and I have had replies that proved me right, even some PMs. I have a feeling that this site is drifting towards a TS oriented forum.
Don't get me wrong: I respect TS and their struggle, that I find more important than my own fetishes, but it seems to me that this site is losing its original "mission" of putting together men that wanted to grow a pair using natural methods (read: herbs).
Nowadays "are you transitioning" is one of the first questions asked to new joiners, even before they can introduce themselves. Advices about seeing gender doctors are more and more frequent and threads about HRT are now in the home page. Yes, they are about "genetic males" but no, they are not about "NBE", that was one of the aims of this site.
My impression is that many guys that just want to grow a pair are now discouraged because in most posts they are referred to as "girls" or "gals". This can be very offputting if a man is just looking for a place to discuss the effects of herbs on his chest.
I also noticed that while the frequency of new posts and users on Ainterol's forum has increased, it has instead decreased here.
I know that some admins are going through transition, along with many senior contributors, but I wonder if this is still the right place for guys to share their experience with NBE. "Males staying male" is now one of many categories nowadays.
Please don't read this as a way to cause a stir. I just wish that we can still ise this place as an informative safe haven for men wanting breasts without feeling the pressure to transition, which in many cases (the majority of the users here) is not what we want.
You can count me in the males staying male camp. I've only made a few comments so most of my participation is lurking and learning. I tend not to be as interested when subjects veer away from NBE. I would love a more active MSM forum where we discuss daily experiences, issues etc. Basically anything to do with guys who want and enjoy having breasts. But I fear that may be a lot to ask for since anytime a man does something even remotely associated with femininity we are chastised and shamed. Growing breasts is not a small thing like wearing a little nail polish or plucking a few hairs from a eyebrow. For those reasons as much as I would like it I don't think that we would ever get the numbers that TS or even CD boards get.

