[Katie]

well my first ever time out was going to an LGBT support group, from there we were also invited to a Christmas Dinner as well (we didn`t go but the offer was there), perhaps you can use such a venue yourself? there`s a few BNO`s arranged usually down London way that I think still exist as well.

though I wouldn`t go to either if "drag" is idea, it wouldn`t go down well! LOL