10-03-2018, 07:40 PM
It’s killing me to be single.
Being single and trans is the worst combination you can think of.
Especially when you are a straight trans woman like myself.
Cis men are so insecure to be labeled gay,... for dating a pre-op trans woman.
I so wish I was born as a cis woman. Things would have been so much easier.
Guys tell me that I’m cute but they always leave the second part of their sentence away. What they mean is “ cute for a transsexual “ or “ cute to fool around with “
But never “ cute to love and spend my life with “ .
I want a normal relationship with a straight man too, just like other girls my age. Why does everything have to be so much more complicated for a condition I didn’t have control over?
I think they would even react this way if I were post-op. From the moment they hear “ transsexual “ they will either run away, kill you or fetishize you.
Never this “ I don’t care, you are still the woman I want to be with “ response.
I want to put myself out there, be honest about my transsexual medical history with men, but I want to be seen for me. Not just for my body or for my trans history. For me, as a woman where transsexual is just that adjective that this woman carries around.
I want a man who will love me just the same, the same as if I were born in the correct body from the start.
Dating as a straight trans woman who transitioned post-puberty and is pre-op sounds like a never-ending Odyssee.
Where are all ‘em cute guys at who don’t care about my trans past?
I put an advertisement on Craigslist and was confronted with tons of chasers and crossdressers ( eggs who secretely want to transition themself ).
While I clearly put in my advertisement that I was not willing to use my penis and that I have plans for an SRS.
Most guys want to fullfill their “ shemale “ fantasy with a girl like me.
Why can’t the chasers just hire an escort and leave me alone?
When will dating get better?
I want a boyfriend. One with an open mind, a basic amount of empathy and intelligence and one who will love me more than anyone else in this world.
At university I seam to attract more girls than guys.
While my face is not male and I have been on hormones for 27+ months so I give off female pheromones. Yet, women approach me in an “ I’m interested in you as a dating match “ way.
Why can’t I attract one hell of a hot straight guy who wants me to be his princess and will protect and love me?
Those women who approach me as a “ dating match “ make me dysphoric as hell.
I’m a girl, that’s obvious, why do I still face this much difficulty?
I so want to give up on dating.
Needed to vent somewhere.
Hugs,
Elissa.
Being single and trans is the worst combination you can think of.
Especially when you are a straight trans woman like myself.
Cis men are so insecure to be labeled gay,... for dating a pre-op trans woman.
I so wish I was born as a cis woman. Things would have been so much easier.
Guys tell me that I’m cute but they always leave the second part of their sentence away. What they mean is “ cute for a transsexual “ or “ cute to fool around with “
But never “ cute to love and spend my life with “ .
I want a normal relationship with a straight man too, just like other girls my age. Why does everything have to be so much more complicated for a condition I didn’t have control over?
I think they would even react this way if I were post-op. From the moment they hear “ transsexual “ they will either run away, kill you or fetishize you.
Never this “ I don’t care, you are still the woman I want to be with “ response.
I want to put myself out there, be honest about my transsexual medical history with men, but I want to be seen for me. Not just for my body or for my trans history. For me, as a woman where transsexual is just that adjective that this woman carries around.
I want a man who will love me just the same, the same as if I were born in the correct body from the start.
Dating as a straight trans woman who transitioned post-puberty and is pre-op sounds like a never-ending Odyssee.
Where are all ‘em cute guys at who don’t care about my trans past?
I put an advertisement on Craigslist and was confronted with tons of chasers and crossdressers ( eggs who secretely want to transition themself ).
While I clearly put in my advertisement that I was not willing to use my penis and that I have plans for an SRS.
Most guys want to fullfill their “ shemale “ fantasy with a girl like me.
Why can’t the chasers just hire an escort and leave me alone?
When will dating get better?
I want a boyfriend. One with an open mind, a basic amount of empathy and intelligence and one who will love me more than anyone else in this world.
At university I seam to attract more girls than guys.
While my face is not male and I have been on hormones for 27+ months so I give off female pheromones. Yet, women approach me in an “ I’m interested in you as a dating match “ way.
Why can’t I attract one hell of a hot straight guy who wants me to be his princess and will protect and love me?
Those women who approach me as a “ dating match “ make me dysphoric as hell.
I’m a girl, that’s obvious, why do I still face this much difficulty?
I so want to give up on dating.
Needed to vent somewhere.
Hugs,
Elissa.