[Happyme]

Hi Elissa!
One of the first things you learn when trying to blend or pass is to just present as a woman. forget the worry about who will clock me.
From reading your post you seem focused on being trans.
So present yourself as a woman. find a man you enjoy and be the woman you are.

If you had a nasty scar on your inner thigh you wouldnt make that a focal point of your date would you.
So let the woman find a man that will like and fall in love with the woman you are.
Then after you have made the emotional connection you can tell him you physical imparity and your plans to correct it.
Follow your heart
Bobbi