[spanky (aka Lola)]

So, if transgendered people are "born that way," what does that mean for me?  I do not know, and would greatly appreciate any insight.

maybe there Aren`t actually any cis people? perhaps we`re all trans to a degree! (just a thought   )  xx

All I know is I feel as though I crossed a bridge and am on the ramp heading off the far end, where I seem to be paused awaiting . . . something . . .  and I don't want to go back.  

I think you are right that we all have some kind of shifting balance of hormones, sloshing about depending on a variety of factors, and the balance may dictate where we fall on the spectrum at a given phase of life.  Indeed, it seems like insight to me, Katie!