[mimzy]

Considering I am in Asia, after reading this thread, i thought we have the same wife. 
I have not gone to the extent of your progress. nor probably will. She raise many similar questions. in the same tone.


I still love her, so i dont see myself able to go through what you are going through. 
Sometimes, I put myself in her shoes, and then i realized a few things.
She is right that I still look like a guy in some ways. So I deliberately look for points when i look like a guy. For example, at certain angle. A certain behaviour? the way i speak.

For sure, I sneeze like a guy! very difficult to change something so instinctive!