[jannet.duff]

Considering I am in Asia, after reading this thread, i thought we have the same wife. 
I have not gone to the extent of your progress. nor probably will. She raise many similar questions. in the same tone.


I still love her, so i dont see myself able to go through what you are going through. 
Sometimes, I put myself in her shoes, and then i realized a few things.
She is right that I still look like a guy in some ways. So I deliberately look for points when i look like a guy. For example, at certain angle. A certain behaviour? the way i speak.

For sure, I sneeze like a guy! very difficult to change something so instinctive!

In guy mode I still look like a guy. Obviously my very mail hairline makes it hard not to lool male.
In female mode I very very rarely get double looks anymore. I do get the odd raised eyebrow when i am at a cash register when I open my mouth. But, passing as well as I do makes life a lot easier.
I have given my wife and family the best years of my life, now I feel its only fair I get to be me in my twilight years.