18-04-2018, 11:50 AM
Ohhh! Now that is beguiling question! Hmm....
For the day... book myself in for a day of pampering at a health and beauty clinic and just revel in the whole experience, culminating in a full makeover and fashion extravaganza!
For the week... go somewhere warm and captivating and just celebrate the freedom of being "out there" at peace with myself and just enjoying the experience of being female.
Longer? Now that's where it get's complicated. We don't live in isolation. Family, friends and income all will bear substantially on any choices. Ultimately we are still who we are. The fact that the exterior now is in harmony with who we are inside would be very welcome, but ultimately aren't our lives made up by those we share our life with? So I am not sure it would really matter so much how we would appear? It's being accepted, being respected, being loved, knowing we are safe, being at peace? Though an amazing house and someone gorgeous to cuddle up to would be nice too
For the day... book myself in for a day of pampering at a health and beauty clinic and just revel in the whole experience, culminating in a full makeover and fashion extravaganza!
For the week... go somewhere warm and captivating and just celebrate the freedom of being "out there" at peace with myself and just enjoying the experience of being female.
Longer? Now that's where it get's complicated. We don't live in isolation. Family, friends and income all will bear substantially on any choices. Ultimately we are still who we are. The fact that the exterior now is in harmony with who we are inside would be very welcome, but ultimately aren't our lives made up by those we share our life with? So I am not sure it would really matter so much how we would appear? It's being accepted, being respected, being loved, knowing we are safe, being at peace? Though an amazing house and someone gorgeous to cuddle up to would be nice too