30-04-2018, 03:58 PM
Agree with Julie (hiya ![[Image: shy.gif]](http://www.breastnexum.com/images/smilies/shy.gif)
), and I am pretty much on the same page. You are not a lone traveler.
We are spoilt for choice for forums and websites that cater for those who are taking the full transition route. And for those on this difficult path, the more support and care that can be found the better! But the uncomfortable truth is that these places can also get a bit evangelical and even judgmental when others don't... or can't... make that ultimate choice for themselves. I have been following the discussion on BN for a number of years now. It is the only place I am aware of that it is possible to raise the idea of cultivating some feminine attributes and not automatically go "all the way".
Speaking personally, I do value the input and insights made by those who are travelling further down this path than I can. I have found them a genuine help in trying to understand my own situation and feelings. But it should also be remembered that the title for BN is Breast Growth for Genetic Males. And for that it is a unique resource of information, advice and support. I suspect I am not the only one to view BN as a treasure and an oasis.
In one of my very early posts I said that if I could achieve a nice pair of little boobies, a few curves and some soft skin for myself, I think I could be content with that. I can clearly remember thinking as I typed those words "Careful what you wish for!". Well, it's been a couple of years since then. And you know what? Although I will admit I do sometimes get that little tug in the back of my mind to go further (so I know what it feels like). I am actually surprised to say this, but it still holds true.
Obviously if you are in a relationship it complicates matters. But consider this, how you present publicly can be very different to when you are out of the public gaze. I will admit that having a touch of fem about my body does provide a degree of comfort, and shifting the hormone balance also helps with the mental battles too. Who knows what the future may hold, but for now it seems to help me achieve a degree of stability and deal with the madness that life seems to consist of nowadays.
Which is a long-winded way of saying.... Yup, there are alternatives.
), and I am pretty much on the same page. You are not a lone traveler.We are spoilt for choice for forums and websites that cater for those who are taking the full transition route. And for those on this difficult path, the more support and care that can be found the better! But the uncomfortable truth is that these places can also get a bit evangelical and even judgmental when others don't... or can't... make that ultimate choice for themselves. I have been following the discussion on BN for a number of years now. It is the only place I am aware of that it is possible to raise the idea of cultivating some feminine attributes and not automatically go "all the way".
Speaking personally, I do value the input and insights made by those who are travelling further down this path than I can. I have found them a genuine help in trying to understand my own situation and feelings. But it should also be remembered that the title for BN is Breast Growth for Genetic Males. And for that it is a unique resource of information, advice and support. I suspect I am not the only one to view BN as a treasure and an oasis.
In one of my very early posts I said that if I could achieve a nice pair of little boobies, a few curves and some soft skin for myself, I think I could be content with that. I can clearly remember thinking as I typed those words "Careful what you wish for!". Well, it's been a couple of years since then. And you know what? Although I will admit I do sometimes get that little tug in the back of my mind to go further (so I know what it feels like). I am actually surprised to say this, but it still holds true.
Obviously if you are in a relationship it complicates matters. But consider this, how you present publicly can be very different to when you are out of the public gaze. I will admit that having a touch of fem about my body does provide a degree of comfort, and shifting the hormone balance also helps with the mental battles too. Who knows what the future may hold, but for now it seems to help me achieve a degree of stability and deal with the madness that life seems to consist of nowadays.
Which is a long-winded way of saying.... Yup, there are alternatives.