[notquitemale]

The subtle changes must be adding up. It started with clear then a subtle sheer tint for my nails along with a light tint on my lips. I'm letting my hair grow out too. Last month while my wife was finishing her eye brows she laughed because I was watching her and asked if that was next for me. I laughed saying my brows were not that full and she said that was true they were only half. Anyway I decided to try out a subtle filling in my brows. It was over a week before my wife noticed so happily that is now part of my routine.
As far as being subtle adds up... as far as my perception and my wife's I continue to present as male. I suppose a slightly androgynous male at that. However in this past week while out with my wife I was addressed by 2 shopkeepers as "young lady" and while in a restaurant the waitress addressed my wife and I as ladies asking if we needed more coffee.  Wow☺. Other than that my wife noticed a new bra I was wearing and asked me if it felt better wearing it because it supports my breast rather than jiggling and also smooths me out. We both agreed this was true.