They are obvious (your breasts) if you are looking for them but it's impossible to tell you are wearing a bra. To be honest I have found people see what they want to see, if they aren't expecting breasts though they wont be looking for or noticing them. I have the same problem at work where they project out quite a lot, although I don't wear a bra as it just makes them look even bigger and I think they are surely noticeable to someone, but seemingly not!
Where I work isn't that big so it could just be the gossiping isn't that widespread but I have enough recruited enough spies and informants that I would get to hear if there was anything being discussed about me. I think people just read me as slightly eccentric with the long hair and noone has even commented about or noticed the lack of facial hair.
Am slowly working on getting my voice sorted and I naturally have a bit of strut going on these days when I walk, but I always think it's better to build your own confidence up first by acquiring the necessary skills than having to jump in head first. Plus when the day does come you haven't then got to try and pick everything up really quickly.
The biggest challenge is not so much what you need to learn to do or unlearn all the male stuff but mentally psyching yourself up for transitioning I feel its going to be a very draining few months so I want to ready both inside as well as out before I pull the transitioning trigger.
That said I get misgendered or correctly gendered a lot as things are so with a bit more effort I don't think things will be anywhere near as bad as I am expecting.
Megan
Where I work isn't that big so it could just be the gossiping isn't that widespread but I have enough recruited enough spies and informants that I would get to hear if there was anything being discussed about me. I think people just read me as slightly eccentric with the long hair and noone has even commented about or noticed the lack of facial hair.
Am slowly working on getting my voice sorted and I naturally have a bit of strut going on these days when I walk, but I always think it's better to build your own confidence up first by acquiring the necessary skills than having to jump in head first. Plus when the day does come you haven't then got to try and pick everything up really quickly.
The biggest challenge is not so much what you need to learn to do or unlearn all the male stuff but mentally psyching yourself up for transitioning I feel its going to be a very draining few months so I want to ready both inside as well as out before I pull the transitioning trigger.
That said I get misgendered or correctly gendered a lot as things are so with a bit more effort I don't think things will be anywhere near as bad as I am expecting.
Megan