[ariadne]

Bev - one day soon you'll do it.  Just be relaxed and give it enough time - say double the time you've been giving yourself.  Use some baby oil. 
You can feel the link between your nipples and your genitals so that means with enough stimulation it's bound to happen.  Imagine yourself restrained in my  dungeon where I'll keep working them for hours until you show me satisfaction.  If the feeling in your nipples intensifies towards pain, see it as a fire of sensation thats going to consume your whole body.    Your first climax may be a dry one but dont stop.  If you keep going then, before long you'll get to the main performance. Its not that uncommon - you need to *know* it's going to happen. Ari