10-11-2019, 10:34 PM
Time seems to move on at slow pace, but before you know it, this thread is close to a year old .. (( GASP ))
As far as clothes go, I have very little male clothing left in my closet. What little male clothes I still have I wear them for doing tasks around the house, to save wrecking my nice clothes. I cane 98% of it to.my local LBGT centre, to go towards helping homeless youth and transmen.
I have been full-time Jannet for @ 8 months. I have lost a few friends, and a few of my computer business customers. But I have gained more friends than I lost, and also a few new customers. My full time employment has not changed, almost all the guys are over the initial WTF moment, and interact with me as they did previously. The girls I work with have been great. My two Sons are fine, their friends and girlfriends just call me Jay.
My home life ..... As expected, my wife followed through and I am sleeping in the spare room. However, we still get along just fine, like two sisters.
She also just calls me Jay, and 99.9% of the time uses the correct pronouns, and apologises when she doesn't. She will also correct anyone that uses the wrong pronoun around me.
I ended up going for counseling due to the ""separation"", it was initially hard, blaming myself for upsetting my wife, for the changes, depression and suicidal thoughts. I was skeptical, but the local Catholic family health clinic was suggested. I have to admit, they were fantastic. They helped in a way I was not expecting. My transition status was of no issue.
( yay Canada ).
Oh yeah.... My closet is still too small ..
Typically me relaxing on a Sunday. Its been months since I last wore a wig,
As far as clothes go, I have very little male clothing left in my closet. What little male clothes I still have I wear them for doing tasks around the house, to save wrecking my nice clothes. I cane 98% of it to.my local LBGT centre, to go towards helping homeless youth and transmen.
I have been full-time Jannet for @ 8 months. I have lost a few friends, and a few of my computer business customers. But I have gained more friends than I lost, and also a few new customers. My full time employment has not changed, almost all the guys are over the initial WTF moment, and interact with me as they did previously. The girls I work with have been great. My two Sons are fine, their friends and girlfriends just call me Jay.
My home life ..... As expected, my wife followed through and I am sleeping in the spare room. However, we still get along just fine, like two sisters.
She also just calls me Jay, and 99.9% of the time uses the correct pronouns, and apologises when she doesn't. She will also correct anyone that uses the wrong pronoun around me.
I ended up going for counseling due to the ""separation"", it was initially hard, blaming myself for upsetting my wife, for the changes, depression and suicidal thoughts. I was skeptical, but the local Catholic family health clinic was suggested. I have to admit, they were fantastic. They helped in a way I was not expecting. My transition status was of no issue.
( yay Canada ).
Oh yeah.... My closet is still too small ..
Typically me relaxing on a Sunday. Its been months since I last wore a wig,