[ScepticalButCurious]

Hi ScepticalButCurious

Here's my suggested way ahead -


One problem is keeping your NBE activity discreet.  For example I use pumping and made some modest size gains with that.  But difficult to do privately if you're living with someone - depends.  Your Binaural Beats are a discreet possibility if they work for you.  If you use herbals or pharma instead then it may affect your sexual performance - or may not.  Some of the guys on here use PM and it doesnt affect them that way.

Second consideration is what happens when breasts actually grow.  This isnt as difficult as it sounds because any change will be very gradual - so wife gets used to it day by day.  If it comes to a question of what to do about it - so long as you're not one of those guys that rushes to the doctor over everything -  you can tell her you dont mind being like that.  They have to get quite big before they affect your lifestyle significantly.   A-cup boobs are nice to have and not a liability - dont show under regular men's clothes.

Which takes us to self-confidence in relationship which is the biggy.  When you're not quietly growing your breasts, you need to be concentrating on giving your wife the very best sex life she could wish for.  Sometimes you have to wait for the right time but when you get the opportunity make sure you go large on it.  And generally make her feel wanted and loved.  The prob is if she thinks your attentions are drifting elsewhere from her then she'll get bitchy as women always do in those circumstances.  (sorry this post not very politically correct).  In fact if she's in that mindset she's probably restricting your sex ration already - which you chip away at overcoming with flowers, meals out, shopping trips etc.

So with these steps you get your ducks in the row.  Perhaps at some stage when you've got her confidence 101 per cent, she may enjoy playing with your breasts.
Go to it, man
x Ari

Thanks, Ari.

We do not have a good relationship all around. I’ve said we’re more like roommates than marriage partners. And that’s partly my fault and partly (mostly?) hers.  I’m 68 and a cancer survivor. My doctor once told me that the chemo tends to fry the testicles, so my T may be low.  I’ve had it checked a few times, and it’s on the low side, but within normal limits. Be that as it may, I can’t get it up anymore.  Even on Cialis, I can get an erection, but I can’t maintain it long enough to have satisfying intercourse. And I think a big part of that is psychological, too. To be honest, I can’t get sexually excited about her any more. We’ve been married for 9 years, and from the honeymoon on, she’s shot me down at almost every turn. And eventually, I just gave up trying. About the only time we even attempt sex is when she takes an Ambien, which seems to make her very amorous.  But that happens, maybe, 4 or 5 times a year.

So, what I’m saying is that the sexual side effects of PM aren’t a concern - I already live with them.

As far as making her feel wanted and loved, that is difficult to do as well.  She has some long time health issues, and is tired ALL the time. If I try to plan something and take her out, she just doesn’t have the energy, and would rather lie in bed and watch TV.

I’ve thought about the privacy issues you mention.  I am intrigued by the Noogleberry, but, like you said, when/where would I be able to use it? But I’ve also thought about what you mentioned - if the growth comes, it’s going to be slow and gradual, and she will adjust to it. It’s not like she’s going to wake up one morning and say, “hey, where did THOSE come from?”.  I have no idea whether the Binaural Beats will do anything or not, but I think I’m going to try to stick with it long enough to see, at least.

Thanks for your thoughts.

Dave.