[Shirazmn]

Dawn was a nice person. 
It’s too bad this chased her away.

That post is from April, Dawn kept posting until June. Nobody chased her away.
In April she created another thread asking to remove all of her content, saying that she had been moody, she was sorry, she had no idea of why she couldn't control what she was writing etc... (the thread has been removed after a while).

I have not been rude. I have been direct. True. I am not British enough to hide behind words and I would expect that people on a discussion board, a forum, are able to discuss instead of walking aways as soon as they feel offended when someone disagrees with them.

Then again, what Dawn has posted, and what Drew is doing again, is something we have seen so many times around here. As soon as a trans* person begins the journey of social transition and needs validation, they come here and tell all men that they better realize they are trans*. I understand that social transition is a bitch, particularly when you have foreign hormones flowing through your body and changing the way you handle stress, and I understand that when you convince yourself that transitioning is the best thing to do, you then want to sperad the gospel and validate that notion by getting others to agree. But it's wrong.
Transitioning may be the path for some people. I never discussed one's reasons for transitioning. I don't expect to have to explain multiple times why I won't transition or why I am not trans. The "Males staying Male" section of the site is a place where people give that approach for understood, without having to explain their cis-genderism over and over to anyone.

There was a time, before the MsM section was even added, when every new used that posted an introduction on this site had to endure the same list of questions/challenges: "Are you trans?" "Isn't it better if you just accept and transition?" "When will you start dressing en-femme?" Etc... I have seen many users running away because they came to a forum called "Breast Growth for Genetic Males" and they found themselves in a "Breast Growth for those that we'll push to admit they are Trans" forum. I asked people here to stop jumping at new users' throats with those questions and assumptions because, simply put, they are out of place. There's plenty of TS/TG websites out there that also touch down on breast growth. If people come here is to find a different type of environment, similarly to how the guys on Men wear Bras don't want to hear that they are gay/trans just because they like to wear bras (some with massive boobs, btw).

So, here we are again. Asking another trans person not to assume that all guys here are trans just because that person is. Have you found your way as trans? Good! I am always happy when someone is happier. But please, please, please, stop coming to this area of the website preaching about how in YOUR way to see the world a guy with boobs (gynecomastia is a thing...) has to be a woman, talk about ballet, and stop fixing his car by himself. The same behaviour would not be tolerated in the Transgender section of the site, correctly. Stop doing it here.