[Andy]

It is good to hear that there has been some revelations in your self on yourself and that you are a happier person for it.

As for the Cogiati test. Like you said. If it helped you with self-realization. Then it was worth doing. Which is one of the things mentioned in this article on the tests. http://www.tsroadmap.com/mental/gendertests.html
This is from the tsroadmaps. A site co-authored by Andrea James and Calpernia Adams.