[wee2er]

Being new here I read alot about going down a rabbit hole, addicted to it, etc. 

1. For the guys that "want to stay male", is it difficult to stop once you start?   I could see myself having a hard time stopping once I start seeing real results

2. Do you have a pre determined size you are going for?

3. Once you start to develop,  do you still go shirtless in public?    

4. Do you try to hide your breasts in everyday clothes?    

5. Do you become self conscious about your breasts and nipples showing?

6. If your married, do you let your wife know your growing your breasts?  My wife knows I used her noogleberry once or twice, but not aware I am considering herbals.

HI Sloppyassho,
Welcome to the fun
I've only been at the NBE for a few months now but happy to chip in with what I think.
1. I'm definitely in the make staying male camp, so can't give you an full answer, but as you know lots of others say it's difficult to stop, it's the call or rather addiction to the hormones that causes this, although I'm no medical expert so I might be completely wrong there!! It's something that I will undoubtedly face at some point in time!!!
2. When I first started I said that I am aiming for a B maybe C cup, however, after these few months and seeing my progress, I have re-aligned my target from being a cup size to shape, so now I am aiming for a pair of natural looking small breasts.
3. I tend not to go topless as I am self-conscious about my scar on my belly and the fact that I have a small dad belly to, the only real time you will see me topless is if I'm sunbathing / on the nudist beach in Wales. As far as I am concerned I will continue to do so and once the world has righted itself (and its warm enough) I'll be heading down to the nudist beach later this year. If I'm out swimming at the baths I have always worn a one piece (waterpolo) swimsuit that hides my scar and any will hopefully hide whatever small ish boobage that comes along.
4. & 5. I've always had some small man boobs that I've never actively tried to hide. I'm happy wearing t-shirts be they loose or close fit and you can always see some of my man boobs shape and in all honesty no one gives a damn or says anything. I have now budded and my man boobs have changed so now poke out quite a bit more. They are now very obvious to me, but still no one has said anything. As the weather starts to warm up I have decided that cardigans, zip up tops and waistcoats will become my new fashion friends. I wear these now and in my mind helps to just hide them a little.
6. I'm divorced and no GF, so no issues on that front, I have two early 20's daughters who have yet to say anything and as and when I will tell them, as you have to be honest and open, secrets always come back and bite you on the ass. 
Hope that has given you another perspective and some further food for thought.
Have a long slow and happy NBE journey