[Heaven's Night]

It is a challenge indeed. But it's possible for sure. There's many men that somehow get huge breasts because of gyno (and not necessarily fat guys), and they really stay as masculine as it can be in general. The problem is there's no record of people doing it on purpose. I mean, there's so many on their journey who just keep it to themselves, not out of selfishness, but because society doesn't accept yet that men who like that exist. And to avoid being judged they keep it a secret. That and also that they don't feel like they fit, for example, in a group of crossdressers. We all know that typical way of acting some men have regarding avoiding being called gay or whatever. I'm sure that happens in the breast growing context too.

Yep, I've talked to few. One guy specially is crazy with it... But often these dudes seem to have a combo of gynecomastia + severe obesity going on, then loose weight and boobs stay there. I would say it's a lucky combination of gyno + overweight + right genetics. But there's no way to know it beforehand as there's so much of YMMV in this.

The in between is a tough place to be for the very reasons you mentioned. Too much fear of social stigma and its better to just not have boobs. But then again, specially men have such a shitty perception on this stuff, its unbelievable how much can go under the radar. I mean my boobs are BOOBS, nothing hides them, but most of the time, people don't see it unless I wear a bra to accentuate them. They don't perceive what they don't expect. But I guess I'm a bit biased to talk about this since I have gone from a guy with boobs to a woman with a penis, or actually not, I'm just finally being me, not trying to suppress anything. I used to be i somewhat of a denial and I'm sick of it, so now just being me. Also, I don't care if people notice it or not. I go out dressed up all the time and I'm not trying to hide anything.