[Heaven's Night]

I totally interpreted it as a term of endearment, and embraced it as such.  The irony of questioning one's identity and having that thought of as weird was not lost on me.

I find it funny as heck as there's so many people who would label us all as total freak shows and weirdos. Things which at least for me are as natural as breathing air and sun rising in the morning. Its good to be an oddball.

This thread reminded me of some hot debates from years ago about males staying males vs. transitioning threads here. At least this one hasn't sunk into a flame war or circular arguments which never solve anything. As if there would be something to be solved in the first place.

I think the diversity of people on BN is one of our biggest strengths, even when it some times pits people against each other. I guess the perspective helps having gone from one to another, I can totally relate with guys who just want to have boobs for one reason or another and also with anyone who's transitioning. Heck, I don't know how far and where I will end up either. I have become a strong advocate of warning anyone on MsM clan about what a life changing road it might be. When I first started, I had zero idea about actually transitioning, it was about giving room to my fem side to flourish and everything snowballed from there.

The fear of BN turning to trans only style place was quite wrong I guess as its obvious that there's people from every corner of the 'scene' here still. Sad thing is that so many frequent posters from the yesteryear have left, a lot of them before I joined the party.