[Drew]

I probably will need to lean on my family in the next year due to the necessity to change the place i work in, they are very judgemental and narrow minded. My mom probably would think someone cursed me or that i'm possesed (that's the level of absurdity i have to deal with).

Well life can be absurd rachel my mum wanted another daughter so I became that, until puberty hit in then that was over. I think I have been doing this about 3 years now and they are suprisingly easy to hide everybody becomes an expert at that. Oversize clothing or something distracting to take the attention away from your chest. There is always a possibility of being clocked that will happen. eg I got caught in a heavy rainstorm in a supermarket car park on the way to my car my oversize t-shirt was just sticking to me, I may well have been absolutely naked then so there will be occasions that, okay this isn't good.
I don't know if this will help but in the beginning I was very self concious and afraid of people noticing but the the further I developed the less I cared.