12-07-2022, 07:58 PM
I do not know if talking about forum moderation is allowed here, if not, please lock or remove this thread.
I'm sick and tired of the shit show lately. I know several others who have also had enough. This forum is most of the time really peaceful and nice place to discuss breast growth, but I have to admit that being afraid if another flame war starting every time I post a picture or a development update is eating away my motivation to keep on posting.
If people like me and Lotus leave, its going to be quite bleak in here. And I think it would be a huge loss and totally unnecessary if we have to go because we're facing continuous shitty treatment and trolling from one individual. Who is breaking forum rules left and right. Naming people in a negative way in ones signature is against the forum rules. So is being disrespectful. Body shaming and misgendering trans women is low, its disgusting bullshit we do NOT have to tolerate on this forum.
I think the spirit of BN is that of mutual respect especially about each others bodies, none of us have chosen the body we inhabit and we all try the best we can with it, unfortunately genetics and so on is not a fair game. We're all unique and all equally worthy of respect. I do not see this happening when one forum user is allowed to bash who ever they want while everybody else is being respectful and nice. That's just not how this kind of social circle online works.
I think multiple rule violations, mistreatment of a whole bunch of forum users, naming them in a negative way on someone's signature, misgendering and body shaming, lying, twisting other people's words, being ungrateful little bitch, not ever being thankful for any given advice and so on is plenty of reason for a permanently banning a person who has been warned many times and given 24h ban already. Ignoring does not work obviously, peaceful coexistence is impossible.
I'm asking for the admin team to do their job and apply forum rules to this kind of disruptive person who's poisoning the well.
I'm sick and tired of the shit show lately. I know several others who have also had enough. This forum is most of the time really peaceful and nice place to discuss breast growth, but I have to admit that being afraid if another flame war starting every time I post a picture or a development update is eating away my motivation to keep on posting.
If people like me and Lotus leave, its going to be quite bleak in here. And I think it would be a huge loss and totally unnecessary if we have to go because we're facing continuous shitty treatment and trolling from one individual. Who is breaking forum rules left and right. Naming people in a negative way in ones signature is against the forum rules. So is being disrespectful. Body shaming and misgendering trans women is low, its disgusting bullshit we do NOT have to tolerate on this forum.
I think the spirit of BN is that of mutual respect especially about each others bodies, none of us have chosen the body we inhabit and we all try the best we can with it, unfortunately genetics and so on is not a fair game. We're all unique and all equally worthy of respect. I do not see this happening when one forum user is allowed to bash who ever they want while everybody else is being respectful and nice. That's just not how this kind of social circle online works.
I think multiple rule violations, mistreatment of a whole bunch of forum users, naming them in a negative way on someone's signature, misgendering and body shaming, lying, twisting other people's words, being ungrateful little bitch, not ever being thankful for any given advice and so on is plenty of reason for a permanently banning a person who has been warned many times and given 24h ban already. Ignoring does not work obviously, peaceful coexistence is impossible.
I'm asking for the admin team to do their job and apply forum rules to this kind of disruptive person who's poisoning the well.