[Vana_B]

After years of lurking here and the trying various programs with limited success I hit upon a method that really works and finally I have some nice a-cups that look like real breasts while still presenting as male and keeping my sexual drive.

So yippee right? Well yes and no...I love having breasts, I think they look and feel great, but it's the middle of summer and to hide them I need to put on a tight sports bra or at the very least use pasties to hide my nipples. These things make it sweaty and uncomfortable during this steaming hot summer. Even worse...In 2 weeks I'm going to visit my sister and a bunch of friends at a lake side house rental and I know I'm really going to want to go swimming in the lake. If I stop everything right now my breasts will probably shrink enough to avoid questions/looks but then I have to start it up all over again and it will take several weeks to get them back again.

I started thinking about this today and getting depressed. I'm wondering what the point is of having breasts if I feel the need to hide them so much? I want to  but I don't know if I have the inner strength to deal with the looks and judgement every time I need to go to the grocery store.  

I'm at a serious crossroad here...I either need to come to terms with this or quit.

Any thoughts? Advice?

I was at the same crossroad, as probably most people here have been.   The key is to be confident and comfortable with yourself,  if you can do that having boobs as a guy is much easier.  One thing I have realized is there is so much variety in people's build,  most don't pay any attention or give a second thought about a guy having small or modest breasts.    Even if you are an A or B cup, no one at the grocery store is going to judge you.  Just people watch for a while at your walmart store,  by comparison your A cups are not even on the scale of worth even looking twice.

Personally,  I have decided my only choice is to put my wants and needs, above being self consciousness.   You need to be exactly like you mentioned..  "be whom I am with no apologies" .   I live on a lake and spend alot of time at the beach and with my shirt off.   I have reached the point,  I really don't care.    I'm still going to go shirtless and not give a shit what others think.   Even if people do notice (and very few do), who cares as their opinion doesn't matter.