Thanks Ariadne, never been accused of being an aspiration.
I did lie a bit there though.
I'm still totally in love with somebody from here, Diana, a steamy online love affair that was destroyed by covid and borders closing then us growing apart through time we did. Well...I didn't.
I told her I'm not in love anymore but feel a lot of love for her. Fucking liar Drew!!!
Ofc you love her!
Anyway she doesn't come here anymore we just mail so I'm safe to reveal my feelings here But yes that one point only interested in men yes true for me too, very true but with just that one little exception.
I would give it all up, everything, and be who she would need me to be in an instant.
Gender is unimportant, the person, the personality is what counts.
So I suppose limiting yourself or saying I only like intimacy with this gender may be how we feel but there will always be a possibility that somebody turns up who will change that.