(27-01-2023, 06:53 PM)Jennifer Wrote: Hello,

I answer to Liz but also for everyone.

I am aware that my changes are minimal but present:
In 2 weeks, it will be 6 weeks since I had my ears pierced, I have other earrings waiting and which are more feminine than the medical earrings used for piercing.
I let my hair grow, and I put it more in the front like a frank.
I've been wearing women's jeans for several weeks.

I subconsciously know that my colleagues must talk about me.

It's winter, so with a sweater, the sleeveless jacket with the work logo and a nose mask all day long, I hide my shapes from the top. I also wear a sports bra. If I had a bra, my chest would be too visible with all this and for the moment, I am not comfortable.

I am waiting to be able to see my doctor again to have anti androgen, from there, it may be easier for me with faster changes.

As Mashtenn had written in a thread, spring will come back and the t-shirts too, it will be difficult to continue to hide my chest and the sports bra or bra that goes with it.

So before spring I will have to take my courage and call my boss directly, to tell her that Jennifer is me.


Kisses to all.


Jennifer

Happy Birthday.  Wishing you the best on this day.  Yes, as spring arrives it makes it harder to hide our breasts.  It took me sometime to come out wearing a bra when the weather warms up and not having to hide them.  I struggled with this and finally decided that why should I be ashamed with breasts and show folks what I have developed.  So far I have had no negative feedback and have actually had a couple of coworkers ask me.  Even in public and family functions I'm very comfortable.  I'm sure I had plenty of stares in public.  I hope this helps you.  You have my support.