Hi Jennifer
You look fantastic and feminine in every way
I think that the actual frame that you pick to replace your current masculine frames will be the right one for you. I particularly like how you use you accessories to compliment your appearance. The jewelry and cosmetics will confirm your feminity and it's very easy to see why you are addressed as mame by another woman.
If I was to pick one frame it would be the third pair as I think that it suits you but of course only you can determine your preference. I am encouraged by your determination.. congratulations for your progress

Jess