08-08-2023, 11:56 AM
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Good idea to dig into this as it seems quite serious. I always encourage self searching and figuring stuff out, its much better to go all into it and find out what to do or not do. Its much better than forever wondering what if or having regrets of not acting early enough. Like for myself, had I had better information and courage to look into it, I would have transitioned already ages ago as I did suspect and wonder for the longest time. It would have saved me from a lot of pain later, so therapist and all this pondering online etc. is the best thing you can do.
Actually I strongly advocate for round domes because the edges are far better on them, but this I think is a personal preference. For me contoured domes were extremely painful in the end because I have so much subcutaneous fat all over me, I'm a big softie, so the edges dug in and caused a lot of pain, rounded ones are way more comfy. I haven't tried the cup rings, the silicone ones are said to be the best, the wide fome rings are garbage. Anything to softed the edges is wonderful if you can get some, especially if you plan to push in serious hours on it.
Good idea to dig into this as it seems quite serious. I always encourage self searching and figuring stuff out, its much better to go all into it and find out what to do or not do. Its much better than forever wondering what if or having regrets of not acting early enough. Like for myself, had I had better information and courage to look into it, I would have transitioned already ages ago as I did suspect and wonder for the longest time. It would have saved me from a lot of pain later, so therapist and all this pondering online etc. is the best thing you can do.
Actually I strongly advocate for round domes because the edges are far better on them, but this I think is a personal preference. For me contoured domes were extremely painful in the end because I have so much subcutaneous fat all over me, I'm a big softie, so the edges dug in and caused a lot of pain, rounded ones are way more comfy. I haven't tried the cup rings, the silicone ones are said to be the best, the wide fome rings are garbage. Anything to softed the edges is wonderful if you can get some, especially if you plan to push in serious hours on it.